Barefoot, Rain, & Contractions



With lots of talk about labour as a few friends are currently pregnant, I began to think back to when Zaedyn was born. This is definitely not the memory I expected to have, however this image is not negative despite what it may seem. Yes being in labour and getting into an ambulance usually does not appear very good, but this was not the case here. I prefer the sunshine, but barefoot with a singlet and wrapped in a sarong…It was definitely me. Being surrounded by this crazy weather, I am sure this is why Zaedyn loves the rain!

As I have previously mentioned, I went into labour late at night only to expect labour to continue for a very long time. With David mostly sleeping and time passing as I hopped in and out of the shower, I was at the point where I knew that something was wrong or that baby’s head was pushing down. As we had not realised what stage we were at, we had not seen our midwife yet. With one phone call our midwife turned up for the first time throughout my labour, my waters broke, and she told me that the head was right there. I felt relieved. I knew that we were that much closer to holding our baby. With no back up for a home birth and the rain pouring down heavily, the decision was made to take an ambulance to the closest place we could make it to: Matariki. David followed along in a car behind us so that he could take my parents. He was told that if we pulled over on the side of the road to pull over as well as we were having a baby.

As my midwife told me, it is all about how you visualise. My determination and perseverance to have a natural birth is what kept me going. Driving up in the ambulance was actually quite brilliant. I was not stuck sitting down and could continue kneeling and leaning forward to help support me through labour. It amazes me how I can think back to everything, yet it also seems somewhat surreal. The time was slow yet passed so quickly.

The things that I am glad I had during labour: my comb (for acupressure points in my hand), hot water, and husband by my side. Everyone has a different story, a different idea, and a different outlook or meaning behind labour and birth. I chose to embrace labour with an open mind and heart and know that in the end I would have a beautiful baby to hold and love. This mindset empowered me to get through and to be positive in my progression through labour. Although I knew that sometimes situations are unavoidable, I had made my mind up from the start that I was going to have a natural birth.

I am not judging anyone on their own choices or way situations may have turned. Who knows what might happen if I end up in labour again. My point, however, is that your mind is powerful and there is a lot that you can do to support yourself through a natural and positive labour. This also starts before labour. I believe that what you do while you are pregnant can impact your labour. The best advice given to me was NOT to lean back, relax, and put your feet up as most people tell pregnant women. I was always conscious that I was leaning forward and sleeping on my left side in hopes that this would help prevent me from having a caesarean or long labour. I often sat on a swiss (Pilates) ball. Although some people can put their feet up and still manage to have a quick natural birth, these practical steps come together to support baby to get in the optimum fetal position.

I am convinced it works. Are you? What helped you, your partner, or someone you know get through labour?

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  1. What an amazing story, Lindsay!.. I similarly was very aware of my baby’s position whilst pregnant and put a lot of thought into it. I was leaning forwards whenever i was to sit down and relax which is totally opposite to putting your feet up.. but as comfy i would say. I too was so determined to have a natural birth and so i did even though i ended up in the hospital having to be induced. Thanks for the comb by the way. It definitely saw me through the intense labour I had!x

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